Tap Into Freedom: The Yearlong Mentorship for Sexual Healers
A hybrid container for the people who hold everyone else — and deserve to be held too.
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Who Heals the Healer?
If you've ever worked with a therapist who didn't "get it," you know the ache. Trying to explain your work… receiving blank stares… or worse — judgment. Or being coached by someone who means well, but has zero firsthand experience with the realities of sex work, intimacy facilitation, embodiment, or holding space for other people in any kind of intimate way.
So many of us have had the experience of sitting across from someone who's supposed to help us, thinking: "You have no idea what my world is actually like."
And it's exhausting. Isolating. Soul-draining.
You deserve support from someone who understands the emotional, erotic, energetic, and business realities of this work — not in theory, but in lived experience. Someone who's navigated the complexity of holding intimate space while maintaining their own boundaries, who knows what it's like to be misunderstood by mainstream society, and who can hold you with the same care and attunement you offer your clients.
Who This Mentorship Is For
If you provide sexual services, healing work, or creative intimacy coaching, you might find yourself in one or more of these tender places:
Needing to Confide
Wishing you had someone safe to talk to about complex issues that come up in sessions — without judgment or misunderstanding
Boundary Work
Pondering how to hold stronger boundaries while staying open-hearted and present with your clients
Desire for Evolution
Wanting to change or evolve your offerings but feeling stuck, scared, or unclear about the path forward
Craving Reciprocal Care
Longing for the same level of care and attunement you give your clients — to be witnessed, held, and supported by someone who truly understands
Seeking Understanding
Struggling to find a therapist or coach who actually gets your world and won't pathologize your work or minimize your experience
Integration Support
Wanting a place where you can be fully real about the intersections of sex work, dating, relationships, money, trauma, and purpose
This mentorship supports both the personal and the professional — because in our field, those two are deeply intertwined. How you show up with clients affects your relationships. How your nervous system responds to intimacy affects your business. Your boundaries, your wounds, your erotic expression, and your income are not separate. They're all threads in the same tapestry of your being.
Who This Is Not For
This is deep, nuanced, relational work. To protect the safety of the group and the integrity of the container, this mentorship is not the right fit for everyone.
This space is not for you if:
Active Unprocessed Trauma
You have active, unprocessed sexual trauma and are not currently working with a trained somatic therapist or trauma professional to support your healing. This program may feel too activating without that level of care in place.
Clinical Diagnoses
You have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), Bipolar Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), or Schizophrenia. While I honor all neurodivergent and complex emotional experiences, this space is not clinically appropriate or adequately resourced to support those diagnoses.
Commitment Challenges
You tend to start programs and give up partway through, or frequently sign up for healing containers but struggle to follow through.
Resistance to Self-Inquiry
You feel unable or unwilling to look at your own patterns, take personal responsibility, or sit in discomfort when it arises. This space requires emotional maturity, honest self-inquiry, and a willingness to be witnessed in the messy middle—not just the breakthroughs.
From Me, To You
I'm Victoria Angel Heart — former sex worker, now sex coach, erotic facilitator, and psychedelic guide.
I built a thriving six-figure sex coaching business from lived experience, integrity, and the fusion of trauma healing, somatic work, erotic empowerment, and spiritual depth. I've lived the path you're on — the expansion and the contraction, the magnetism and the burnout, the creativity and the confusion.
I love to call myself a passionate pleasure "permissionary" dedicated to empowering folx to embrace intimacy within themselves, their relationships and with all of life. With a background rooted in nurturing connection, I've been providing professional cuddling services, sex work and embodied intimacy coaching to support tech professionals in the Bay Area since 2019, and I've been coaching women around sex work and cuddling since 2022.
My diverse training includes in-depth studies in sexological bodywork, neo-tantra, somatic sex education and the Wheel of Consent. My expertise extends to certifications in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques). Having honed my mindfulness meditation teaching skills at UCLA, I proudly serve as a featured instructor on the Insight Timer app. I'm also a trained in Ketamine Assisted Therapy and Psychedlic Harm Reduction & Integration.
I Know This Journey Firsthand
The Isolation
How isolating it can be to work in a taboo industry where few people understand the depth and complexity of what you do
The Depletion
How hard it is to take care of yourself when you're constantly caring for others and managing everyone else's energy
The Vulnerability
How wild it can feel to date, connect, or be vulnerable while also doing this work — navigating disclosure, intimacy, and authenticity
How much unprocessed wounding the "wounded healer" carries — and how important it is to tend to your own healing journey with as much devotion as you bring to your clients
How vital it is to have a safe person and a safe group to talk to — without censorship, shame, or the need to hide parts of yourself or sanitize your experience
This mentorship weaves together energetic skills, boundary repair, inner child work, somatic regulation, creativity, magnetism, business mentorship, and erotic sovereignty, so you can become the healthiest, most aligned version of yourself — personally and professionally. You'll learn to hold yourself with the same tenderness you offer others, and to build a practice that sustains rather than depletes you.
What You'll Receive
This mentorship is designed as a complete ecosystem of support — addressing every dimension of your experience as a provider, creative, and human being navigating this profound work.
Four Pillars of Consistent, Embodied Support
Individual Deep Dives
Private one-on-one coaching sessions tailored to your unique journey, challenges, and evolution
Group Skill Building & Sharing
Monthly teaching calls and processing circles where we learn, practice, and witness each other
Group Medicine Journeys
Quarterly microdose-based ceremonies for deep healing, connection, and integration
Peer Support & Accountability
Private group chat for real-time support, celebration, and holding between sessions
Each pillar works synergistically with the others to create a container where transformation happens naturally — not through force, but through consistent care, skilled guidance, and authentic community.
1:1 Coaching Sessions
Biweekly Private Sessions
Private 75-minute sessions where we dive deep into whatever is most alive for you. These aren't generic coaching calls — they're tailored, trauma-informed, and designed to meet you exactly where you are.
We'll work with whatever's present: energetic overwhelm from a challenging client, confusion about where your work is heading, relationship dynamics that mirror your client work, creative blocks, or business questions that have spiritual and emotional dimensions.
What We Focus On Together
Boundaries & Energetic Hygiene
Learning to hold clear containers without hardening your heart — protecting your energy while staying open and available
Complex Client Dynamics
Navigating projection, transference, attachment, and the nuanced relational field of intimate work
Dating While Doing Sex Work
Managing disclosure, maintaining authenticity, and building healthy partnerships while navigating stigma
Inner Child Repair & Trauma Integration
Healing the wounds that led you to this work and the wounds that arise from doing this work
Erotic Healing & Somatic Expression
Reconnecting with your own pleasure, desire, and embodiment — not just as a provider but as a full human
Business Clarity & Evolution
Shifting your offerings, raising your rates, attracting aligned clients, or pivoting your work entirely
I support you to stay grounded, safe, and connected while interfacing with many clients — and to honor your voice and needs even while in the provider role. You'll learn to resource yourself, trust your intuition, and navigate the inevitable challenges with more grace and less overwhelm.
Group Sessions
1–2 Calls Per Month
01
Monthly Teaching & Reflection Call
I share a skill, framework, or practice related to boundaries, energy, relationships, creativity, or erotic embodiment — followed by group reflection and sharing
02
Optional Monthly Drop-In Processing Call
Real-time support for whatever's arising: case studies, challenges, co-working sessions, witnessing circles, or practice space for skills we're learning
These aren't surface-level webinars or generic group calls. They're relational, alive, and intimate — spaces where you can be witnessed in your full humanity, learn from each other's experiences, and practice the skills that will transform your work and your life.
"Before working with Victoria, I was overwhelmed by self-doubt, trapped in insecurities and mental stories, and struggled to set clear boundaries or trust myself in sex work. Through her coaching, I learned to trust my intuition, hold strong boundaries, and let go of the mental chatter that held me back. Now, I feel grounded, confident, and empowered—able to show up for myself and my clients with skill, integrity, and real self-assurance. Victoria’s guidance has truly transformed not just my work, but the way I relate to myself and the world."
— V, Current Mentorship Participant
You'll build genuine relationships with peers who are walking a similar path, creating a web of support that extends beyond the formal mentorship structure. These connections often become lifelong friendships and professional collaborations.
Quarterly Medicine Journeys
For those ready and willing, we gather for four expanded-state ceremonies designed specifically for people doing intimate, emotionally intense work.
These aren't recreational experiences — they're carefully held, consent-based healing containers that allow you to access deeper layers of your psyche, release stored trauma, and reconnect with your essential self.
From that place of reconnection, you'll be invited to receive nurturing touch, supportive words, and loving care from your sisters.
These journeys are foundational for our work together - both individually and as the group mind we are forming.
What Each Journey Includes
1
Themed Tapping & Somatic Work
Preparatory practices to help you drop into your body and create safety in your nervous system before the journey begins
2
Connection & Co-Regulation
Opportunities to be in relational space with others, practicing attunement, mirroring, and the art of being held
3
Consent-Based Relational Practices
Somatic practices that help you find more embodied safety and connection to others
4
Nourishing Food & Integration
Delicious, grounding meals and dedicated time to process, journal, and share what emerged during the journey

Note: Participation in the journeys is a vital part of the mentorship experience. If you prefer to work without plant medicine, you're still welcome to attend and be in the field. In this mentorship — the 1:1 sessions, group calls, and peer support are the foundation.
These gatherings are small, deep, and intentionally designed for people doing intimate, emotionally intense work. They provide a rare opportunity to be held in expanded states by someone who understands your world, and to build trust with a small cohort of peers who witness your unfolding.
Ongoing Peer Support Space
Private Encrypted Signal Thread
Between sessions, you'll have access to a private group chat where you can bring real-time questions, challenges, celebrations, and requests for support. This isn't a passive space — it's an active, responsive container where you're held by both me and your fellow mentees.
What You Can Bring to the Thread
"A client crossed my boundary. I feel shaken and need to process what happened."
"I'm thinking about quitting or shifting my offerings. Can I get some perspective?"
"My heart is cracked open after a session — help me metabolize this."
"I need support around a dynamic that came up in my personal life and it's affecting my work."
"I just had a huge win and I want to celebrate with people who understand what this means!"
You don't have to hold it all alone. This thread becomes a lifeline — a place where you can exhale, ask for help, and receive thoughtful responses from people who genuinely care about your wellbeing.
Knowing you have a group of people who are just a text away, who won't judge you or misunderstand your world, creates a sense of safety and belonging that's rare in this field.
The Structure & Commitment
This is a yearlong mentorship, because change this deep requires time, spaciousness, and consistent support. Real transformation doesn't happen in a weekend intensive or a six-week program — it unfolds gradually, in layers, through consistent practice and caring witness.
A full year gives you time to move through multiple seasons of your work and your life. You'll experience the ebb and flow of motivation, the inevitable challenges that arise, and the moments of breakthrough that make it all worthwhile. You'll have support through it all.
Start With Three Months, Then Decide, If You Need To Try It Out
I understand that a yearlong commitment can feel like a lot, especially if we haven't worked together before. That's why you can start with just three months and experience the mentorship firsthand before deciding whether to continue for the full year.
Try It Out
Begin with the quarterly intro option — three months of full access to all aspects of the mentorship
Assess & Reflect
At the end of three months, notice how you feel. Are you more grounded? More clear? More supported?
Continue or Complete
If it's a fit, continue for the full year. If not, you'll have gained three months of solid support and clarity
This approach honors your autonomy and gives you the chance to experience the mentorship without the pressure of a long-term commitment upfront. Most people who start with three months choose to continue — but you'll make the decision that's right for you.
Investment Options
This mentorship is an investment in yourself — in your healing, your growth, your business, and your capacity to do this work sustainably. The pricing reflects the depth of support, the intimacy of the container, and my decades of experience in this field.
Quarterly Intro
3 Months
$1,111/month or $3100 upfront
  • 6 private coaching sessions
  • 6 group calls (teaching + processing)
  • 1 medicine retreat
  • Access to peer support thread
Yearlong – Monthly
12 Months
$999/month
  • 24 private coaching sessions
  • 24 group calls
  • 4 medicine retreats
  • Year of peer support access
Yearlong – Quarterly Pay
$2,777 every 3 months
Same benefits as yearlong monthly, with the ease of paying quarterly
Yearlong – Full Pay
$9,999 upfront
Includes bonus private session and access to Victoria's courses plus all yearlong benefits

Payment plans and scholarship spots: I hold space for financial flexibility. If you're drawn to this work but the investment feels out of reach, please mention that in your application. A limited number of sliding scale or payment plan options are available for those who need them.
This is a significant commitment of both time and money — and it's meant to be. The providers, healers, and creatives who thrive in this mentorship are those who are ready to invest deeply in their own transformation and sustainability.
If You're Reading This…
It's likely because you're already on my radar — or someone who loves you sees your potential and knows you need this kind of support. This container is invite-only and application-based, with only 8 spots available per cohort.
I keep the group intentionally small so that each person receives the depth of attention and care they deserve. You're not meant to be just another face in a crowded program — you're meant to be seen, known, and held.
You're not meant to navigate this path in isolation. And you don't have to.
What Happens Next
1
Submit Your Application
If it feels aligned, you'll complete a brief application sharing more about your work, your challenges, and your intentions
2
Book a Call
Schedule a conversation where we'll explore whether this mentorship is the right fit for you and your current season
3
Receive Your Invitation
If you're accepted, you'll receive an invitation to join the next cohort and choose your payment option
4
Begin Your Journey
Step into the container and start receiving the support, healing, and mentorship you've been craving
Before working with Victoria, I often felt overwhelmed, unsure of my boundaries, and lacked confidence navigating sex work. Now, I feel empowered, clear, and grounded—able to hold strong boundaries, trust myself, and show up for my clients with both skill and integrity. Victoria’s guidance truly changed my work and my life
— V., Intimacy Coach
If you're feeling the pull, trust it. Your intuition brought you here for a reason. Let's explore whether this is the container you've been searching for.
Start with filling out the application, then book a call below!